what is important to me is what the recipient of the mail sees. And I would like that to be a clean text followed by attachments in he form of Icons.
There is no way you can control how the recipient "chooses" to view your email. Their email client, possibly with input from the user, determines how emails are displayed.
There is nothing in the email protocol which forces a client to display the message in any particular way.
There are hints that can be embedded to suggest whether an attachment be viewed inline or as an attachment, but how "inline" and "attachment" directives are interpreted and display is not specified and is quite differently handled amongst the many email clients.
The best you can do is set the message to use "Send Windows-friendly attachments" and "Insert attachments at end" (Edit menu > Attachments).
Another helpful modification is to send plain text messages (Format menu).