No, my issue is no notification at all. Forget what I said about my wife's phone. I obviously confused things. Yes I was escalated to tier 2 support. They simply had me go through the same exercises as the tech did at the Apple store with the exception of whatever it was they tried from their end.
I did know, nor did they say anything about a profile or monitoring. After the update ios 14.6 (I gave the wrong device update version) and until I took the phone to the Apple store to be looked at, the notifications were sporadic. After the tech did a Reset Network settings, the notifications stop working completely. He then said he had to do a Reset All Settings. I will say it got rid of some apps that I have not used and had forgotten about. He said they must be no longer supported. Kept all my contacts and mail but took out screen saver and some other small stuff that I could reinstall. My phone seems a bit faster! However, I receive no notifications of any kind since doing that. He simply handed the phone back and told me to keep trying to work with Apple.