Hi, it seems you're using non certified accessories in your Home (I saw Harmony tiles that are not HomeKit certified for sure). So from there, don't look much more : with uncertified accessories, it can corrupt your HomeKit backup on iCloud, even if you create a new home, HomeKit remembers everything, you can't fool it : I've tried to add an old iPad to my ID Apple with HomeKit disconnected in iCloud settings : I was having Home notifications on this iPad. And my Home setup remembers of accessories or scenes I've deleted long time ago and restore them every time I connect a new Apple device to my home (yeah, very strange but it does each time...)
The only way to resolve your problem : on a new Apple ID, create your Home and don't add any non certified accessories. By the way, every device MUST be on last OS to operate correctly, even your Macs. If you can't upgrade to Big Sur, you'll have to disconnect it from your Apple ID if your want a properly working Home setup. HomeKit needs to have each Apple device on the very last operating system.
Good luck !