Updating my watch

I am having issues updating my apple watch, and it has had me unpair my watch from my phone to update. Then when setting it back up to pare and update, it is now saying that "I am not connected to the internet". I have disconnected the wifi, reset the router, went on airplane mode, deleted and reconnected the wifi from my phone, restarted both my phone and the watch. Now I am just unsure what I should do. After reading some threads, I found one guy that had waited 3 days for his to work, but I don't have the time for that to work, and the nearest apple store is closing.

(series 3 watch and iPhone Xs)