Hi Charlimg80,
Thanks for coming to Apple Support Communities for help today resetting your AirPods Pro.
Be sure you are following these steps: How to reset your AirPods and AirPods Pro
"How to reset your AirPods and AirPods Pro
You might need to reset your AirPods if they won't charge, or to fix a different issue.
- Put your AirPods in their charging case, and close the lid.
- Wait 30 seconds.
- Open the lid of your charging case.
- On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, go to Settings > Bluetooth and tap the "i" icon
next to your AirPods. (If you don't see your AirPods in Settings > Bluetooth, just go to the next step.) - Tap Forget This Device, and tap again to confirm.
- With the lid open, press and hold the setup button on the back of the case for about 15 seconds, until the status light flashes amber, then white.*
- Reconnect your AirPods: With the lid open, place your AirPods close to your device. Follow the steps on your device's screen."
Have a fantastic day!