Answer to remotely controlling elderly parents computers

And this is how I would help my grandmother halfway across the country when something needed to be done with her Mac. It's a Mac-to-Mac solution. –

Share screens using Messages on Mac - Apple Support

TD, I am looking for the same thing but for sharing between iPhones.

I need the ability to share my elderly mom’s iPhone 12 screen … for her almost nightly phone calls asking how to do the most basic of things. Her dementia is getting worse and she doesn’t remember how to do screenshots, reply to emails, etc.

If there was an app, like the one Apple Support uses to remotely access our iPhone screens, that would be perfect. No we don’t have iPads and she no longer has her MacBook. Simple access to her phone would give me back 10 hours a week of my repeatedly walking her through the most basic things.

Any suggestions for available apps for this? What about iOS 15 FaceTime screen sharing? Will that be available for iPhone as well as the iPad?

I used to share screens with other Mac users via iMessage (Messages app). I need the same capability between our iPhones.

Pls I need my life back & it’s heartbreaking seeing my formerly Apple savvy mom, be unable to do the most basic of tasks.

I've heard good things about RemotePC (there is a Mac version) which gives you the ability to access your mum's computer remotely.

I don't know if its a Big Sur problem but I can't access the site so keep trying and try other devices if you have them..

No, I have not tried using this with an iPad. I would usually just sit down at my iMac and get to work. 👍🏽