What does "notifications silenced" mean in Messages?

I’ve been texting with a good friend of mine and all of a sudden at the very bottom of our texting thread it says “🌙 Molly has notifications silenced “. What does this mean? Is she specifically silencing my specific text messages so she doesn’t receive them or the banner doesn’t pop up? She has an iPhone as well and I’ve never seen this message before. My feelings are a bit hurt but I’m not really sure what it means, if someone could explain this to me I would so appreciate it.



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iPhone 12 Pro Max, iOS 15

Posted on Oct 11, 2021 2:54 AM

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Posted on Oct 12, 2021 7:48 AM

Hi vinnetta208, 


Thank you for using the Apple Support Communities. 


We understand that you’re seeing a notifications silenced message when messaging a friend in Messages app and we’re happy to help. 


It looks like your friend uses Focus on their iPhone. When a person sets up Focus on their iPhone, then you might see a message displayed in the Messages app that says [contact name] has notifications silenced. This means that the person you’re messaging has their notifications silenced. Please note that you can still notify your friend if it’s urgent. Learn more about Focus here: Use Focus on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch


Best regards. 

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Dec 12, 2021 9:12 AM in response to jmcnutt5

Hey, guys! I found a fix for me.


I can’t remember exactly what happened because I tried a lot of things, but my best approximation of the fix is this:


Go to Settings, Focus, the under the Options section, tap on Focus Status. In that page, there’s a toggle: Share Focus Status. Turn it off and on a few times AFTER you’ve set who you want to be allowed to bypass the focus notification block. THEN go turn all your focuses on and off again and then set them to be on or off, whichever you’d like.


For me it turned out that all my settings were correct, but turning focuses on and off seems to “reset and verify changes. Since I was having this problem I hadn’t used focus on weeks and never reset it, so the problem continued until I finally did this.

Dec 12, 2021 9:08 PM in response to holgaguy

Agreed. I have the same problem. My wife’s phone keeps telling me her notifications are silenced when THEY ARE NOT. This “Focus” thing has got to go App,e. The iPhone is becoming way too complicated I am relatively tech savvy and I am frustrated. My wife is not tech savvy. How the **** is she supposed to figure this out? The Focus feature is a bug, not a feature. FIX THIS ASAP!!

Dec 14, 2021 1:54 PM in response to vinnetta208

I have the exact same issue with my son. It tells him notifications are silenced and they are not. And he is literally the only one. I have turned all of them OFF. And tried deleting the message thread from both phones. And tried restarting, and updating, and putting him on my second line (dual sim phone) and its the SAME THING!!! Please fix this obnoxious issue!!!

Dec 15, 2021 12:34 PM in response to vinnetta208

This works on mine, but no promises for others as I still do not understand SMS messages, and surely do not get the whole ”Focus” feature. I only know that it is frustrating.


1 - Go to Settings

2 - scroll down to Messages

3 - Turn on Send Send as SMS


*Again, no promises here! This was simply me going through clicking things on and off and suddenly it seems to take care of the problem.

Dec 15, 2021 1:47 PM in response to heptacat

heptacat wrote:

This works on mine, but no promises for others as I still do not understand SMS messages, and surely do not get the whole ”Focus” feature. I only know that it is frustrating.

1 - Go to Settings
2 - scroll down to Messages
3 - Turn on Send Send as SMS

*Again, no promises here! This was simply me going through clicking things on and off and suddenly it seems to take care of the problem.

The only thing "Send as SMS" does is, if it's on, tell the phone to resend an iMessage as an SMS if it fails to send as an iMessage. It is likely that changing this setting isn't what fixed it. But, as I'd recommend people leave it on all the time, seems like a very reasonable thing to do.

Dec 16, 2021 11:21 AM in response to Sharon_419

My phone tells my friends all day long that my notifications are silenced but Focus is definitely off. I have turned the phone off and on several times but it still shows I have notifications silenced. I have had this issue since Apple did their update to Focus. There are people all over the internet with the same issue, when does Apple plan on putting in a fix for this?

Dec 16, 2021 11:38 AM in response to Sharon_419

I've spent the last few days looking at all the various fixes.

I've tried them all and, as with many others here trying to fix this, none of them work.

I firmly believe it's a bug that's somehow related to Apple's new 'Focus' app and the way the app has been integrated across the platform. -- I would suggest if you want an answer to add to the growing list of comments.

My guess is that may be the only way to elevate this to the ivory tower.

Dec 18, 2021 10:45 AM in response to RamblerMan905

RamblerMan905 wrote:

Except that 100% of the people with the problem here all said the phone isn't set to silent mode. Like mine is not. I hear the message come in.


Silent mode (flipping the switch above the volume buttons) doesn't, to the best of my knowledge, activate this message. Only Focus (formerly Do Not Disturb) does.

So to recap the other 100+ people who posted. Focus off, do not disturb off. Not all contacts see the message, just some.

Including yourself, less than 60 individuals have posted in this thread. And, not all of them have precisely the same issue. In fact, the original poster never said that the person from who they were getting the message had Focus turned off. A couple of people figured out their issues.

Dec 18, 2021 1:05 PM in response to RamblerMan905

RamblerMan905 wrote:

I mentioned the SMS mode as he said it "all of a sudden appeared". It also all of a sudden went from SMS to iMessage at that point when Molly replied.

Regardless, it was the original question. Anyone who has a different problem should really have started their own thread. It's generally more productive than posting in a thread that is only tangentially related. Nonetheless, some people in this thread have found resolutions.

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