I agree with most of what has been said here regarding the Monterey update and the slow start up.
And I am also a Mac user since more than 20 years, and I agree with some remarks that this has been the worse update I've ever experienced, it's tragic in today's world that a company that is valued at $ 2 trillion that they don't have the resources for professional software developers, and if you think this is not the reason, is it because, like their trick with slowing down older iPhone's in the past with every new iPhone release, that they are trying the same trick now with their Macs ? Whatever they are doing, they are driving me and people like me who are frustrated with the software problems to change to Windows 11.
If you look back in History, all past Empires eventually fell, if Apple don't get their act together soon, I'm afraid the future looks grim and Mr Musk can rub his hands if he goes past just offering a new Smart Phone but a PC solution, maybe running Linux at first.