This may also have to do with the processor in your MAC.. I am in the basic MACBOOK AIR.. and it may be the worse laptop Apple has ever produced....... with data errors.. misfiled transfers and things like : display, screen saver and a variety of wall paper issues........ Support seems unable to stop them and they tend to look for other provider problems rather than be much more internally focused... SO, the issue with synching to IPHONE is also a misery, as the appearance of iPhone in the left panel, simply doesn't exist for iPhone 13 and 14 with my basic machine... Another reason that if I could afford it, this one would be dropped from a 30 story building!!!!!
Part 2 additional info... just read about a community member find the phone under location.. not in my combination of basic MacBook Air and iPhone 13... Some one earlier was posting about syncing movies that wound up in music???? yep.. while we didn't sync movies, when we can sync using the iPhone recognition in Apple Music app, I have to go through all 27 playlists and eyeball 3000 songs because hunderds wind up in the wrong library or play list... and subsequently the "SEARCH" doesn't function very well either... yet another story
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