HomeKit Home Invitation not delivered

While it isn’t a solution, I can say that I created a new Apple ID on an iPad Pro, added that ID to my family, and it didn’t work like most.

I sent an invite to my GF who doesn’t use HomeKit, who doesn’t live here, and it sent. But she does have an actively used Apple ID 🤷🏽‍♂️

No longer have access:

My wife does with her cell phone thank goodness. Having a disability she moves from the couch to the bed, then back to the couch. When the sun goes down both her and I use to have access using an old ipad, which was bricked. Either one of us, after having installed all these device in our home to make her life more easy, has now come to an end. Now only one device has the ability to connect to the bricked device. At least she can still turn on and off the lights in the room using her cell phone. But I can no longer assist her, and neither can anyone else. Every time Apple offers an update, they make things worst. I am tempted to rip out all my devices, getting rid of cell phone completely. I've had to replace a few wall devices due to updates, and this failure to remain connected to the network when ever its updated has got to stop. But disabling family members like this, I think I'll go back to reading books and playing outside. Thousands of dollars invested in destroying our planet with electronic junk. All due to security updates. Lame excuse. Oh my someone is going to shut off my light from outside of my home, oh no what will I do ! I can understand mistakes of letting this happen, or preventing outsiders with automatic door openers and such. But this most recent updat has been slapped together wrong. iOS 17 did not fix anything either. For us unless they fix the "invites" I'll have to remove the ipad brick fastened to the wall.

Hey there kaweah, 

Sounds like a plan. We look forward to hearing how it goes.  

Have a good one!

Has anyone figured this out? All of my devices are up-to-date, and I can see everything on any device I am signed into, but I can't send an invitation to my wife.

Same issue here, seems crazy no updates on this issue.

Thank you Ephemeral Ghost - this actually addressed the issue at my home!

This is it.

This worked for us!!!! Thanks.