Hey Ziemoose99,
We'd recommend reviewing this article as it provides steps to help resolve issues with Ask to Buy: If Ask to Buy isn't working - Apple Support
"Review your Family Sharing settings
If you're the family organizer, you can go to your Settings or System Preferences to see if your family members' accounts have Ask to Buy turned on.
On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch
- Go to Settings.
- Tap Family. If you don't see Family, tap your name, then tap Family Sharing.
- If you're the family organizer, make sure that Purchase Sharing is turned on. Then you can tap a family member's name to see if Ask to Buy is turned on for their account.
Check the Apple ID that you're using for purchases
Make sure that you're signed in to the App Store, iTunes Store, Apple TV app, Apple Music app, or Apple Books using the same Apple ID that you selected for sharing content with your family. Learn how to use your own Apple ID for Family Sharing.
On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch
In iOS 16 or iPadOS 16 or later:
- Go to Settings > Family.
- Tap your name.
- Make a note of which Apple ID is listed.
- Tap Purchases.
- Tap Apple ID for Purchases and make sure that you're signed in with with the same Apple ID that you use for Family Sharing. If not, tap Share using secondary Apple ID and enter the Apple ID and password for that Apple ID.
In iOS 15 or iPadOS 15 or earlier:
- Go to Settings, tap your name, then tap Family Sharing.
- Tap your name.
- Make a note of the Apple ID that you're using.
- Go back to Settings.
- Tap your name, tap Media & Purchases, then tap View Account.
- Make sure that you're using the same Apple ID."
Thanks!
