Hi MarkalanT,
First it's a good idea to ensure your Roku device is compatible and has the appropriate software to support these functions. The page How to use AirPlay and HomeKit with your Roku® streaming device includes a list of devices and a correlating minimum software requirement.
Your iPhone appears to meet the minimum from that page with the information you provided.
That article also offers configuration steps as well as this specific section on AirPlay with videos:
"How do I use AirPlay to view videos, music, and photos on my TV?
Before you can use AirPlay with your Roku device, check that your Apple device and Roku device are on the same wireless network. Once they are, you can use the steps below to view content on your TV using AirPlay.
- On your Apple device, find the video, song, photo, or podcast you wish to share.
- Tap or click the AirPlay video icon in video apps, or the AirPlay audio icon in music and other audio apps.
- Note: With some apps, you may need to tap or click the Share icon before you will see the AirPlay icon.
- Select your Roku device from the AirPlay menu.
Once playback begins, you can pause, fast forward, and rewind from your iPhone, iPad, or Mac, or you can use your Roku remote. When you want to stop streaming with AirPlay, you can press Home on your Roku remote."
Regards.