How to create automation to silence the phone and disable vibration?

You’re wrong. Do not disturb mode does not mute system haptic sounds. So when my charger turns on automatically at night it makes a sound and wakes me up…

Well… this is not he was looking for!

if you put in do no disturb mode calls and messages, for example, will completely shut down! Instead of someone trying to call you (without dntm) the phone continues ringin.

Use the Do not Disturb mode in Settings ➜ Focus and schedule it accordingly.

Do not disturb disables all sounds, vibration and notification alerts at the specified times.

click here ➜ Use Do Not Disturb with Focus on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

The charge vibration is not part of the alerts or notifications that get silenced, no. It can't be. Its a specific notification outside of regular alerts and calls that in most cases needs to be heard.

Unless you have power failures, the iPhone should not be disconnecting and reconnecting from power and vibrating when it does. Check your power installation.

If a short vibration wakes you up, put your iPhone on a surface that will muffle the vibration.