Panic Medic Boot.. A third party kernel extension was preventing the machine... Need an expert

you used a unique method to post your Etrecheck report, so it is double and triple spaced, very hard to read, and the most interesting later part was omitted.

Did you update your virtualization software for a later version of MacOS?

They often need to be updated whenever you change versions, and the jump to Ventura requires a different kernel extension treatment.

you don't need to pay anything or update to a later version. You just need to follow the supplied directions closely.

Using EtreCheck to Troubleshoot Potential… - Apple Community

Thanks, that much easier to read, and the stuff at the ned was the key.

the 40 crashes from TrustedPeersHelper (part of iCloud interface) are likely down to a corrupt SQL database. A reader found a solution here, with a description of what to do to delete the damaged file here:

TrustedPeersHelper taking quite a bit of … - Apple Community

Catalina that you are running now uses APFS Volume Groups, but anything later wants to create a locked, checksummed system Volume, so a major re-arrangement and change in drive structure is required.

The name showing on your drive leads me to believe its Apple File System structure has been clobbered.

¿what is the date of your most recent backup, and by what method?

Further progress may require that you completely Erase the drive, install the later MacOS, and restore your files from backup.

when I say completely ERASE the drive, I mean:

Select the drive by its immutable manufacturer-given device-name

and erase THAT.

If not showing, use the View menu to 'show all devices'

if you have a T2 based device (2108 or later) and that has not been successful, you will probably need to do a restore from another Mac running 10.15.6 or later.

Revive or restore an Intel-based Mac using Apple Configurator - Apple Support

I wrote in error:

if you have a T2 based device (2108 or later)

correct information should be:

if you have a T2 based device (2018 or later, with intel processor) OR Apple-silicon Mac

deerpoint wrote:

I paid the Apple Service Provider $70 to try and restore without any luck. They said they were receiving an error in the memory. Be interested to see if we can get it working again. Thank you again

You may want to ask your service provider for more details.

Regardless of whether it was RAM memory or disk memory that was the issue, a 2019 MacBook Pro has both of those soldered to the mainboard for maximum reliability.

It sounds like you may need a replacement mainboard to make progress.