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How is my child bypassing screentime limits?

My nearly 13-yo is bypassing screentime limits, and is able to use apps that are clearly not allowed during downtime.


If you Google "how to bypass screentime" there are many blogs which list some of the same methods. As far as I can determine, he's not using any of these techniques. He can't change the time or time zone, can't uninstall and reinstall apps, tricks to use iMessages is not the issue (he's allowed to anyway with selected family contacts), etc. He's obviously not factory resetting the phone, and he's not changing the screentime settings at all (so he doesn't have my screentime passcode).


What is happening: certain apps -- the ones he wants to use like SnapChat and TikTok -- are completely accessible to him after downtime begins, currently at 9:30pm. (I believe he can't override the time limit for screentime, because sometimes he'll request more time, but not sure on that.)


Some clues:

  • The apps deactivate at midnight and he apparently doesn't know how to get around that
  • I thought he might be using shortcuts, but can't see how. he's got shortcuts that open some of the apps he likes, but it seems that's just so he can have custom icons for them on the home screen.
  • only allowed apps are phone, messages, maps (after downtime)
  • he isn't using anything involving tethering to a computer, because he was doing it when he didn't have access to his computer for a couple days, too.


Some hearsay:


  • a technique involving asking for 1 more minute and force quitting the app and relaunching it? I tried this and could't achieve the bypass


Any ideas how he is doing this?


Obvs. if he keeps doing this I'm just going to confiscate the iPad, but it would be nice if this system worked and I knew how to prevent him from bypassing it.


FYI here's another similar unanswered thread.


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Posted on Aug 30, 2023 9:04 AM

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Posted on Jun 19, 2024 2:26 PM

Hello,


Being a child (above 13) myself with Screen Time too, I know exactly what method has been being used. After reading through each post in this thread carefully, I examined the possibilities of what exploit could have been used. Here's the thing: Your child is not using any exploit.


You mentioned that your child does not know the Screen Time passcode but does in fact know your iPhone password. When your child reaches downtime/their limit for the day, they are presented the option to Request Time. Your child can request time and a popup will appear on family organizers' devices. Now, when clicked, this notification will ask for your screen time passcode. However, if you simply hold down the notification, you get four options.


Don't Approve

Approve for 15 minutes

Approve for 1 Hour

Approve for all day


When your child clicks Approve All Day, it does not ask for a screen time passcode and gives access to the app(s) requested until 12am (Midnight).


My recommendation is to change your passcode immediately! This will most likely fix your problem.

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Jan 22, 2024 1:52 PM in response to Momofabunch

Momofabunch wrote:

My teen has admitted to getting around screen time and restricted contacts by turning his phone off. When the phone is powered back on, it gives him access to apps and phone numbers for a few moments (I haven't timed how long) before the regular parental control settings start working again.


I doubt that. Your credentials might be known.


But again, parental controls are doomed to fail against any suitably inclined kid. Prisons fail at this. And yes, there are absolutely places and things around that parents do not want to have discussions about, and will wish to block, but that doesn’t make those conversations any less avoidable nor these blocks any more effective.


You might run parallel Wi-Fi or shut off the Wi-Fi on a schedule, but even that won't keep a suitably motivated kid isolated from their interests.


Technology can’t solve people problems.


Sep 1, 2024 12:13 PM in response to Chattanoogan

There is a trick which apple could not fix.


You can guess an unlimited amount of times if you go to settings > general > transfer or reset iPhone > erase all content and settings > continue > enter passcode for your iPhone > then it will ask you to enter your screentime passcode. You can guess an unlimited amount of times, and once you get it right, you will know because it will begin to erase your device, but you can cancel immediately.


You can start at 0000, then 0001, then 0002, etc. all the way up to 9999.

How is my child bypassing screentime limits?

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