Stella-Bernu_10 wrote:
I’m always scared to get locked out of my iPhone,and I finally have in I am REALLY depressed 😔 I know how you feel.
Write the passcode on a slip of paper, and stick it on the refrigerator.
For some folks that seldom get out, stick the passcode on a slip of paper underneath the protective case.
For some other folks, I’ve switched their passcode to a passphrase, and used their own apartment number, their home telephone number that they grew up with (this for the folks that grew up before mobile phones were a big thing), the name of some person or pet that makes them smile, or some other detail that they well remember.
For some others, I’ve gotten them a feature phone or a cordless, as the iPhone was simply overwhelming them.
What works best varies by person and by case, and can vary over time for the same person, too.
Different folks have different security requirements, too.
Do get backups going to iCloud, though. Devices do get dropped, dunked, damaged, lost, or stolen.
How to back up your iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support
Having that backup makes recovery easier.
Some other things I’ve helped folks with:
Getting backups going happens automatically, and a legacy contact is set up once and usually then left unchanged. Archiving can happen once in a while, depending on how often folks are taking photos or such.