the laptop has been blocked by the system on the apple server and is not connecting. It is not even updated and the date is April 1, 1976.

<<. the date is April 1, 1976. >>

Unless the date & Time are correct within five minutes of Internet time, you can not make a secure connection, which is required for use of Apple-ID anything.

Every connection to every server will be denied.

Hi lyanda151,

welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community.

Re: "How do I unlock my laptop on the apple server so that my ID password works?"

Am no expert in this area, yet your request surely deserves some response.

Wondering if Apple support's online article (link below) can help:

See: How to remove Activation Lock - Apple Support

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Re: "Is there any official request and service that would help me unlock the mac on the server,

so that I could reset my password through my id?"

About : Online Activation Lock Removal

Request additional support for unlocking your device:

Proof of ownership documentation is required, and must include the product serial number, IMEI or MEID.

Device must not be in Lost mode

All files and data will be removed.

NB: If you restore from a local backup, that will re-enable activation lock.

More info: https://al-support.apple.com/#/additional-support

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Re: "I can't reset the password"

Info. on What to do: If you forgot your Mac Login Password

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Check whether to follow the first article below for newer MacOS versions

or

the second article for older MacOS versions.

(1) The steps in the article below are for MacOS Catalina or later.

If you're not sure which macOS you're using, try these steps first.

https://support.apple.com/HT202860

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(2) For MacOS Mojave or earlier:

Change or reset the password of a macOS user account in macOS Mojave or earlier - Apple Support

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If needed:

MacBook Pro Support website: (info. / support / contact options etc.)

MacBook Pro - Official Apple Support

All the best :-)

Thank you for your expert viewpoint!