ur not going to believe this glenn, so last night i tried again, one of my last moves was to try to install everything back on the old hard drive cuz once before i got to the installation menu... success, ok, sigh of relief, atleast i got that... now, instead of holding down c all the time when the apple logo came up on the 500 gb hard drive i released it and, to my surprise i was able to get it to come up, have no idea how or why but it did... installed everything, transferred music over, so atleast now i have a 250 gb hard drive without the music on and my 500 gb hard drive that is now fully complete, well mostly complete again...
like i said before, i have no clue...didn't do much different than i already had been doing...but yeh, figured i'd let you know that.. 🙂