I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that iPads and iPhones are taking too much attention from the Mac side so the engineers and devs are f-ing up. The teams are separate, and Apple has the resources to do both sides of the equation (Mac and iDevice). The trick is that software this big is extremely complicated, and OSes especially have complications due to the various configurations they get installed onto and all the various other apps that might run on them with various bits and pieces installed to make those apps run. You can't test every possible combination of every app, every configuration, every possible state of caches, local DBs, etc, etc, etc. That doesn't mean it doesn't suck for those of us who get impacted, but you can't just assume the root cause is iDevices.
As for retrograding to 10.6.6, you need to do a restore from the USB key that came with your computer, and then upgrade the OS to 10.6.6, but stop there.
I personally would download the Combo updater to 10.6.7 as most people seem to be ok with that install (most, but not all, so it may not work for you)
As for how temporary people are saying these various fixes are, that's dependent on your system. Mine has now held for 4 days, and I've had occasion to really test the limits, so I'm comfortable that I'm ok.
Good luck.