To joshjones01:
I agree with you. The problem is located on the iphone using 4.3.3 and not on the people networking equipments.
What I was willing to point out is that there are two equipments facing each other: The first one is the iphone and let's call the second one a router.
Since you have a limited access to the iphone network settings, people are trying to modify the network using the other side of the network, that is the router.
And they are sometimes lucky...
I was lucky, since I was able to discard 802.11n on the router side and since this is a kind of a temporary fix... I will just wait for 4.3.4, and enable 802.11n back on the router.
(I'm not using the airport express as the router, but a triple play "box")