My IPhone 4s is not sending text messages to just one person. Help!

All of the sudden I can't send texts to my boyfriend. It seems like I'm getting his now but he is not receiving any of mine. Any advice?

iPhone 4S, iOS 6

Posted on Sep 30, 2012 5:52 PM

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Posted on Sep 30, 2012 6:08 PM

go to Settings > Messages and make sure Send as SMS is turned on. If he isn't on an iDevice (iPhone, iPad, iTouch, etc) or if your service isn't great your messages may not go through in a timely mannor. you may also want to scroll down and make sure the MMS Messaging is turn on as well while you're doing the above.


You may also want to make sure you aren't signed into iMessage on a computer as i've found out you may have issues.

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Nov 24, 2012 11:53 PM in response to rnicole

Fire the new CEO. This is ridiculous. This actually is happening with my gf right now. Shes not getting any of my text messages. What the **** is the matter with Apple that they would be so stupid with maps and now this.


Im on ATT and she is on Verizon. We both have iphones. This does NOT appear to be happening with all of my contacts. I have another friend on Verizon and she gets my texts.

Jan 12, 2013 8:37 AM in response to btraister

OMG. I'm having the SAME freaking problem with my boyfriend! I followed the steps you outlined earlier, but its not working for me... any other suggestions? My messages are saying "delievered," which never are actually delievered. Maybe he has to do the steps and not me?


We both have iPhones... I'm AT&T; he is verizon. This is such an inconvenience (nicely put)!!

Mar 24, 2013 10:12 PM in response to rnicole

Im having the same prob with sending texts too my bf . All of a sudden two days ago he stopped receiving my texts .. Everyone else im texting gets them .. Tried to delete it and enter his number as a new one and hes still notbl getting anything from me ... If u or anyone knows how to fix this prob please let me know bc i have no clue how too !! Thank u !!!!

Jul 3, 2013 9:55 AM in response to rnicole

I have the same problem with iphone5 ... Except that its my wife who isn't receiving my texts. She has an old clamshell non-smart phone. I can email her from my phone and can receive texts from her. This started about a week ago.


I have deleted her contact details and re entered them, have deleted the message stream, have do e the number change thing, have reset my iPhone . No solution to the problem.


I can send and reci e both iMessages as well as ordinary texts to other phones.


What can solve this?


Hugh

Jun 12, 2014 7:18 AM in response to rnicole

my wife and my kids, and i are having this same issue. we are all on the same network (AT&T) and all have Iphones. all are updated to the latests update (iOS 7.1.1). we have been having this issue for about a month or so now. I have tried all of the above suggestions and nothing seems to work. my iMessage is stuck in the off possition and will not turn on. i cannot send an text to my wife now due to when selecting her name from the contacts and choosing her phone number it comes up as "no name" will not allow me to send (as in the "send" button is greyed out).


have deleted my text messages from my history 2 times not to only have them come back after restarting my phone.


this is getting really old.


will an Apple rep please respond with an acurate fix?

Jan 1, 2015 5:43 AM in response to Supss

Hi, this worked for only 1 of the number in my contacts (my other phone) all teh other contacts that didnt work, still dont work. Tried everything. Is there a simple way out, happy to delete/reset phone or change phone numbers, anything but goingthrough each contact adn finding teh correct solution for each contact. Apple you are a disaster for this. Sort it out.


Wil getting a new sim and tel number, but keeping all contacts relove this. OR will i have to start all new contacts and type them in all over again one by one.?

someone shoudl be fired for this incompetence. Its 2015 adn the thread on thi sall over the internet dont really say theres anything easy to solve this. Happy new year apple, youve given me the first headache of eth year.


BTW with my problem, my network provide says the text are sent (they just dont land) so they have been BILLING ME.!! as it leaves the network, GETS LOST IN APPLE somewhere and NEVER turns up. Apple you owe me money.

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