Prior to the IOS 7 upgrade I was able to pick up WiFi both at Home and away. I too now have the problem with a greyed out wifi button, and and before that the wifi dropping out and not even picking up either the Apple airstation or my Virgin Wifi (even when trying to connect within a couple of feet of these devices).
I'm not sure how many posts are in this thred but there are 14 pages of them. My phone is out of warranty by a few months, however I do not feel that I should have to go to the lenghts of freezing or heating my iphone to get it to work as it did before I upgraded to IOS 7. What I do find strange is that with all these comments Apple support have not chipped in at all. Either to to deny or otherwise some of the suggestions being put forward. To me it says that Apple do not care about their customers. This community is clearly being ignored by Apple in my opinion. I am a recent convert to apple but I'm beginning to regret it as they really do not seem to care.
Come on Apple, prove me wrong, get some support for this technical issue.
To have to heat an iphone to get a chip to reset itself is bizzar, I think it clearly shows that there is a software problem causing the relevent h/w or chip to close down, or there is a hardware fault that may show itself in the millions of phones at some time later in the iphones life. This would really hit them both financially and in their standing in the market place which may be why they are trying to play down these faults.
Like many people, I picked an iphone because it (should) intgrate with my other Apple equipment (2 Macbook pro's a Macbook and an iPad) In particular I use the wifi to share via my personal hotspot to the above devices all at the same time (which worked before the upgrade) and to connect to 'paid for' wifi services when away from my home.
So, come on Apple do the right thing, own the problem and get this problem sorted.
I would have bee n happy to go back to IOS 6, but the Apple store sI went to aid that it is not possible (I didn't have time to wait for a 'Genious')! I have heard that there is a way to go back, but I have yet to find and try this. If this is the case then the Apple guy was lying to me.
I have also found that when the iphone is connected via the cable to my Macbook's USB I cannot get to the internet (Wifi or 3G) on my Macbook. I always could before the upgrade.