I've reported my frequent disconnect issues previously on this thread. Last night, CarPlay disconnected during a phone call, and I just finished the call on the handset and hung up. Then my 2018 Audi Q5 MMI would not play any audio. Anytime I adjusted the volume, it popped up the graphic for adjusting the volume of the "phone call." In other words, the head unit continued to think a phone was attached to it and actively making a call, even though the phone was disconnected (no cord, no bluetooth), I had restarted the phone, and obviously CarPlay was not active on the MMI (head unit). I had to reattach my iPhone XS and make a call and then hang up to "reset" the MMI to release the phone call.
The reason I mention this is that events occurring with CarPlay during the disconnect persisted on the MMI, whether the iPhone was attached or not. Clearly, with all the reports of issues coming and going in association with iOS updates, the iPhone software is playing a role. But now I increasingly wonder if the CarPlay app (installed on Audi, BMW, Subaru, etc head units) has its own stability issues. As such, version "X" of CarPlay on vehicle "Y" may be a bad combination with an iPhone with iOS "Z."
Hopefully that made sense. And it may explain why some solutions work for some folks and not for others... because there's 2 versions of software and 2 kinds of hardware in play. As I've tried everything on my phone that others have suggested, I'll see if my dealer is willing to update the software.
Thanks all...