The majority of troubleshooters here are savvy enough to not feel a need anti-malware protection. Some have had bad experiences, but most never tried them. What they have observed is that many of the slow-down issues that are brought up have been cured by having the OP uninstall a A-M that monopolizes their CPU. So it's no surprise that they have adopted a position of not recommending it's use.
Most of the articles you will read about the need for such protection come from A-M developers who won't be in business long if they can't sell their wares. Even Patrick is supported in his development efforts by Patreon contributors, although his approach to protection is somewhat different from most.
That said, there is no question that Mac malware has increased greatly in the last few years, but most of it is simple adware, annoying, but not malicious. Of course there have been at least two instances of Mac Ransomware distributed, but quickly stopped.
I can give you some figures as to the number of malware types and signatures Apple uses compared with ClamXAV and ClamAV Mac unique signatures, but too late tonight.
I'm still at a loss to understand what aspect of ClamXAV you feel is unsafe. I don't recall anybody else having ever reached that conclusion. But I'm a big believer in users making up their own minds about whether they need such software and what brand, so won't try to change your mind as long as you fully understand the facts.
Like all software, there have been versions that crashed for a small number of users, but those were quickly resolved. It's extremely difficult for developers to provide crash-free software that works with OS X 10.6.8 and above and I believe ClamXAV is the only A-M that does now.
Like all A-M software, it is subject to False Positive and False Negative findings, but once reported those can quickly be repaired. Each signature is run through a QA test before release, but without user feedback some are bound to slip through. It's not possible to provide an environment to match ever possible user setup.
Now that SIP has been implemented, it's all but impossible to harm the OS by accidentally attempting to remove some component of it, which has happened at least once with all A-M software.
The ClamAV scan engine is Open Source and has been included with all versions of Apple's OS Server. Anybody who understands how to read source code can easily see exactly what it does and how it does so without having to even reverse engineer it.