But EVERY problem here is supposed to be UNIQUE for any machine. Because any user is, him/her too, unique.
It's not (only) a technological problem, it's a philosophical problem.
We are supposed to obediently follow the 'expected behavior' of a theoretical user to whom nobody, actually, ever, never asked his/her opinion.
Sorry but the size of that sheepyard is too small for me. More precisely, Apple' ill pigs wallow too much in my vital space.
It's not to that OS itself to decide when, how often, and where it puts my backups until the f$#&g disk be full up to the brim (by the by, actually these files are ALSO in your system, run the command with sudo after having deleted all snapshots in your home with no sudo, and you'll quickly understand what I meant...)
It's not to Spotlight to decide when and why it interacts with the Internet while I'm only searching for files on MY disk. Besides, this fundamental technology underlying modern version of macOS is totally unable to find files in any Library, therefore it is OBVIOUS that TrashMe do NOT use it.
It's not to some cracked programmer in Cupertino to decide that me, The User, must inevitably and permanently search in each and every of my photos for f@#$ing "faces and objects" at the price of a total blockage of all my other tasks, etc., etc.
Correct? or not?
Because if it's not, it's the precise difference between Democracy and a rogue dictature.