Let's split the issues here:
a) Apple's trusted sources = "those that paid for the developer program". Apple trust dollars. Anyone that pays "the fee" ($99) is a "trusted" source. So don't be fooled. Even curated software downloaded from the Apple App stores may have problems such as scams, fishing, etc. It happened and it will continue to happen. Trusting a software developer is a sole matter of reputation (not even size). VueScan developers are in this sole business for may years, with a very good and solid track record.
b) Apple is in the business of making their stockholders happy, not us. Forcing people into "programmed obsolescence" is a reality of this market. Long are the days where you would by a toaster and use it for 20+ years or a fridge for decades. Today things are either made-to-break or with an artificial lifetime. This is unfortunate, but this is how this industry works. For example each version of macOS or iOS drop at least one generation of hardware. I've "lost" one Mac mini to Sierra and another to Mojave (although there are ways to make they run the latest macOS).
c) Apple don't force you into updating to their latest OS. Even old OS still receive security related upgrades. They do make a compelling argument to make you do so. And then we face problems like this. I know that rolling back an OS upgrade is not an easy task, so most of the time people with bite the bullet and get "new" hardware. I've seem this before (with Mac and mostly with Windows). this is very common with 3rd part hardware.
Btw, are you having printing problems too?