With Respect to your WiFi traffic. You can use the built-in macOS WiFi Diagnostic to scope out all the WiFi base stations and which channels they are using, and how strong their signals are, then change your WiFi base station to use a set of channels that does not seem to be over used in your apartment. NOTE: as you do not control your neighbors, they could switch channels on your and one day you have good service, and the next day, you are using Wireless Diagnostics to find unbusy channels again 😀
Hold the Option key and Click on the WiFi menu bar icon
Select "Open Wireless Diagnostics"
Go to Wireless Diagnostics -> Window -> Scan
Expand the window so you can see all the columns
Click on "Scan Now" in the lower left corner
The bold entry will tell you what WiFi network you are connecting to.
If you have both 2.4GHz and 5GHz WiFi, then you will have your other channel listed as well.
All the others are your neighbors
Look at the RSSI (signal strength), the Noise, and the Channel columns. These are the most interesting to you.
RSSI with a low negative value -30, -40, -50 is a strong signal.
Noise with a high negative value -70, -80, -92 is "Great" as it says there is very little noise on that channel.
What you want is to find a channel where the neighbors report high negative number, meaning in your apartment their signal is weak and will not interfere with you.
For 2.4GHz channels 1, 6 and 11 are best, as each 2.4GHz channel actually uses up 5 channels of bandwidth, so channel 6 spans channels 4,5,6,7,8 Channel 1 spans -1,0,1,2,3 and Channel 11 spans 9,10,11,12,13. For 2.4GHz it is best if you can find a channel where the main number all the neighbors have high negative values, and the 2 channels above and below also have high negative values (or are not being used).
Then find a channel that sits in the middle of an area where the neighbors signals are weak and you would be strong.
For 5GHz each channel does not overlap with its adjacent channel, so just find the channel where the neighbors have high negative numbers.
Or just buy the biggest baddest, WiFi Router you can afford. The Netgear Nighthawk is reported to be that kind of modem 😀