"Apple has clearly taken the position that scratching one's screen is accidental damage and is not replacing people's screens"
Wow, victim blaming as usual.
Let me clarify this for you, since you seem not to have paid enough attention to what people on this thread are actually complaining about; most people here are claiming that screens are being scratched to such a degree that cannot reasonably be explained away without any damage having happened to their phones. Sure, there are a few outliers who admit to having dropped their phones et cetera, however the majority claim to have taken good care of theirs. If paraphrasing this as "people scratching their phones" isn't disparaging, I don't know what is.
Incidentally, the second part of your claim is unbacked; Apple has yet to make a statement about "Scratchgate". Or do you, as not-an-Apple-employee know something that we don't? Even so, the claim that Apple doesn't replace scratched screens is utterly misinformed, since Apple did in fact replace the screens of multiple users including myself completely free of charge might I add.