Screen Time not working after update

After the ios14 update my child’s screen time isn’t working on my iPhone. Just looking for a fix.



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iPhone 11 Pro, iOS 14

Posted on Sep 29, 2020 7:10 PM

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Posted on Mar 9, 2021 2:09 PM

I had the same issue and thought that it started after upgrading to ios14.4. But I was wrong.

The approvals for the additional screen time requests of my doughter didn't work anymore if I accepted on my iPgone. It was also not possible to access her screen time settings and log from my iPhone anymore. There was just an endless spinning wheel.

I followed many tutorials trying to fix it, re-installed my iPhone, the iPhone if my daughter and also her iPad. No success.

But today I found the solution: Some time ago, she added me to the "blocked contacts" list of facetime. The consequence was: (1) If I called her via facetime it didn't ring on her side anymore, and if she called via facetime my phone was ringing, but no connection could be established (2) she didn't receive any iMessages from me anymore, but I could still receive from her (3) the screen time parental control was broken.

After removing me from her Blocked Contacts list of facetime everything works fine again.

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Dec 22, 2020 12:06 PM in response to Switzers2002

Same here. I have a XS and my two kids have XR, and every time I do an update, it's like they get out of sync and the kids phones are totally unrestricted. Usually after all are on the same update version, they seem to sync back up. However, after the 14.3 update, they're not syncing back up and kids are not restricted. I appreciate Apple providing this feature - sometimes I wonder if any of their developers, engineers or executives have young kids - but either they don't or this is a feature that is often overlooked and seems to break after updates. Waiting for a fix :(

Feb 7, 2021 10:00 AM in response to Switzers2002

ScreenTime is COMPLETELY broken in macOS Big Sur 11.2. I have a brand new MacBook Pro, and, despite being a cloud computing architect with 30 years tech experience and a 15-year mac user, I can not get child controls to work on an account I have setup for my son. It's broken even when I turn OFF the controls. Here's some issues:

  • Downtime is just a complete UI failure. I want to allow him to use his devices ONLY from noon - 1, and 5-8pm during the week, and from 9-8pm on weekends. i'd like to set durations for each program. I've just had to set this up in a Microsoft account, where I can define multiple allowed times per day when use is possible, but then limit the duration of specific programs individually. How can the Apple design be SO MUCH WORSE than what Microsoft was able to come up with, which is just intuitive and obvious? Having one downtime for each day, when the downtime crosses the midnight boundary, is just incredibly confusing. I have tried to <day> = 8:00pm to 5:00pm, to indicate only 5:00pm to 8:00pm on that day should be allowed, but this doesn't seem to work, and it's just completely non-intuitive.
  • Safari and Chrome are not listed as apps. There really should be a way to jus say "Allow these completely during these times" or "disallow all use" or "allow but use per-website whitelist/blacklist." Instead, how to figure this out is jus completely confusing, and I'm a very technical guy.
  • I'm here writing this, because I'm trying to use my son's account to setup an alternate user on GitHub to test some team logic pretending to be him, and just want to use multiple websites. But, I'm getting blocked, in both Safari and Chrome, even for a simple Google search. 1Password can't download. Some sites work and others don't. I can't figure out how to say "allow all sites, but just block these few". I have turned off Downtime, turned off App Limits, and then I go back to his mac account, and I STILL can't use Safari or Chrome, getting strange messages. It's just completely broken and unusable.
  • I have seen this behavior before, where modern websites reference dozens of different internal links to work, including many calls out to trackers or ad systems which if denied just break the website and make it unusable. Any child protection system can't break every website anyone wants to use when it's turned on, or we will do what I've always had to do each time I've tried to use Apple's parental controls in the past - they are SO BUGGY in causing random things to break all over the place with no idea as to why, you just have to turn them completely off in order to use the account, then you're left with ZERO protection for your child!
  • I love Apple. I use a MacBook daily and love it. But, their parental controls have always just SUCKED. How can Microsoft come up with a more usable variant of this - it's unreal. What I want is simple.
    • I want to define multiple times during the day when controls are in or not in effect. This needs to differ by day. For example, I currently want to allow use noon-1pm and 5pm-8pm on Mon, Wed, Fri, and 9am-8pm on Sat, Sun. I can do this on Microsoft, why not with ScreenTime?
    • I'd like to set duration limits on each Program or Website, so I can say "you can use this 2 hours within your 11 hour window today". For an App, that means it's open and running. For a Website, it means that website it open in a tab in any browser. Seriously, how hard is that?
    • if I turn on parental controls, I shouldn't have random features of the OS or other programs not related to those specifically banned just randomly break, because behind the scenes some firewall rules are blocking traffic which is needed for the service or website to work, but is not the primary app or website shown in the address bar, so I have no way to know why something isn't working (and then have no alternative often to just turning off all controls).
    • What I MOST want to do sounds pretty simple, and it should be equally as simple to configure, and it should work. Here it is: "I don't want my son to be able to watch youtube.com during school hours!" - I can take away his devices when he's asleep, but I can't watch over his shoulder when he's on a computer 24x7, as he's using it for school. So, it should THE PRIMARY USE CASE TESTED to simply disable a website in any browser, by just entering it's domain, and any child-domains should be included (i.e. "deny youtube.com", should mean "www.youtube.com", "other.youtube.com", etc).
    • I should be able to specify, for each specific item, if that is per-device or across all managed devices. So, I want "block *.youtube.com from 8-5 Mon-Fri - across all devices / accounts associated with this child", or "Allow <game> to be used 2 hours today on either mac or iPad or iPhone cumulatively, not 2 hours per device."


Doing simple and obvious things should not be so difficult, and cause so many unexpected side-effects which break MANY things that you can't really turn it on.


This should not be so hard.

Feb 7, 2021 10:41 AM in response to mjcconsulting

More issues I forgot to mention on my last post. On my son's macOS account, where i enabled ScreenTime ONCE - even after turning it off, the account remains so broken as to be unusable, both when ScreenTime is off or on.

  • Most Safari and Chrome websites are broken and unusable.
  • I can't use email, against any account but his iCloud child account, which we don't use at all. He has both a school and personal account on two separate Google Suite setups, which require what I think is an OpenID configuration, so when email tries to authenticate to Google, so Google will trust the mail client, via a handoff to the browser, this just fails each time with a mysterious error. So, mail is unusable.
  • Even when I go in and completely disable ScreenTime, turn off all ScreenTime options, everything remains broken, even if I log him out then back in. So, it's doing some type of destructive modification of user settings, which is breaking stuff everywhere.

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