iPhone12, 2 months...should have returned it when I had the chance.
I am having the same issue/s. I have spent hours with support; ATT and Dell...when I could not connect at all.
One thing that "helped" was to update the driver on my Dell. At least I connected, but that is it. VPN just flat out does not connect, constantly disconnects (unable to work from home...big problem). Connectivity to Zoom last about 30 minutes IF all other devices in the household are off, including my husbands SE...which works fine btw.
Phone/Text/Email reception is spotty at best...where it use to be solid.
Wish I had my 6S back, I never had connectivity issues with the hotspot, VPN or Bluetooth. You would think Apple programmers could figure this out...how did they go backwards?
I was told that I need to keep up with the latest version...I check that daily in the hopes of a magic update that will give back the quality connections I was accustomed to. I am going to continue to try for a bit due to the investment already made ($1200) if not better soon I will be switching to another phone...not Apple...as this is impacting my work capabilities.