And since we've already started with the personal attacks, I will add one more thing...
Probably the very worst thing you can do is assume that somewhere at Apple someone has seen this thread and has urgently dispatched software engineers to start working on a bug fix in Ventura. I can assure you that nothing of the sort has happened. It is extremely unlikely that anything of the sort will ever happen in the future.
If you sit on your hands, you will just get more and more frustrated. Like it or not, you are the one that is going to have to do the debugging on this. If you have data on externals that you can't erase, it will be your responsibility to copy that data somewhere else so that you can erase that drive and try a different format. If will be your responsibility to backup your computer, erase it, and try it again with a factory fresh installation.
I'm not saying this to be mean. I don't have the problem. Therefore, I can't help in any way.
You are free to keep using this thread for as long as you want. You can post whatever it is you want in it. You can demand Apple fix it. You can call me names. Whatever makes you feel best. Or you can get to work and start isolating the problem bit-by-bit. Only those people who have the problem can do this.