Hello, Thank you for trying to help. However, nothing seems to work.
I have an old MacBook Air and cannot upgrade to Ventura.
The Iphone 7 is also rather old. It's IOS is 15.7.5
I tried buying a new album on the phone from the Itunes Store and that downloaded both to the phone and the computer. So, there is a proper connection there.
So: on the Mac, I made a new library. Oddly it showed the strange U2 album that Apple put into everybody's library around 2005. After I bought the new album, that also appeared. I removed the U2 album and put in one older album that I bought from Itunes years ago. I then moved all the other music to another hard drive and deleted it from the Mac, so they cannot be part of the problem.
On the phone, I deleted the music app and reinstalled (repeatedly). That did nothing, so I ended up resetting the phone and then having to reset all the passwords, etc.
When I plugged the phone into the computer, I tried the photo app and it downloads photos with no issue.
The program successfully backed up the phone, but then it still hangs at "(Step 4 of 5) Determining tracks to sinc".
The one thing that is strange is that when I plug in the phone to the computer, the music app on the computer shows the phone in the main window and also a long list of songs. I don't know where that list is coming from. It should not be either on the phone or the computer. I have taken all the songs off the computer and repeatedly deleted and re-downloaded the app on the phone