Merged Voicemails after IOS 17 Update

My wife and I share an Apple ID but have different cell phone numbers. We both have iPhone 14 Pro Max.


When I updated to iOS 17, yesterday, I lost all ability to make changes on the Apple ID (the picture got grayed out in Settings). Can't even enter it.


When she upgraded to iOS 17, today, our voice mail gots merged. When someone leaves a VM on her phone, it shows up on mine. Same as leaving a VM on mine, it shows up in hers. When I delete a VM on my phone, it gets deleted on hers and vice-versa.


How do we need to change to get back to separate voice mails? Please help.

iPhone 14 Pro Max

Posted on Sep 19, 2023 6:47 PM

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Posted on Sep 23, 2023 4:18 PM

The issues were two fold and resolved in a Genius Bar session.


  1. The grayed out Apple ID was caused by me turning on Content & Privacy Restrictions, Not Allowing Passcode Changes and Account Changes, and putting in a different 4-Digit Passcode. Once, I turned it off, the Apple ID under Settings, stopped being grayed out and it was back to normal. BTW, the reason I put I put in this 4-digit passcode is because of this report from WSJ: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCfb9Wizq9Q;
  2. The only way out of the merge voice mail (calls, photos, etc.) is to create a different Apple ID and do Family Sharing.


Thanks for your help!

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Nov 19, 2023 1:32 PM in response to StLKathy

StLKathy wrote:

We also are experiencing shared voicemails because we share an ID. We don’t want 2 IDs so we can easily share Contacts, Calendars, etc.

we tried turning off Live Voicemail as someone suggested but that didn’t work.

Apple needs to fix this.

There is nothing for Apple to "fix". The only people who can fix it are you and whoever you're sharing an ID with.

Stop sharing an ID.

If you're unwilling to do that, there's nothing anyone can do to help you.

Nov 22, 2023 12:07 PM in response to HenryBo

You do know IdrisSeabright is just a user here like everyone else is a user on this user to user only forum, right? Of course it's none of our business what you do with your iPhones. But it is Apple's business as they OWN the software running on your iPhone. You only have a license to USE the software on your iPhone by virtue of buying the phone.


And you are so doing the wrong thing by allowing a minor to use an adult's Apple ID. SO WRONG. If you are truly concerned about the safety of your minor, you should immediately wipe their phone, set it up with it's own Apple ID, use Family Sharing and implement Parental Controls on the their device. All things Apple put in place to protect minors and permit families to share content.


Here are three links for you:


Get an Apple ID for your child - Apple Support

Set up Family Sharing - Apple Support

Use parental controls on your child's iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support


Dec 12, 2023 1:05 PM in response to dhinlax

dhinlax wrote:

I've read through all 14 pages (and growing) of this thread, along with several other related topics/threads. I’m ready to unwind our shared Apple ID (AID) situation, but it’s still not clear to me how to do that while minimizing data loss or causing other problems.

There appears to be two main approaches for the devices that need their own AID:
1) Reset the devices to factory, rebuild from scratch with the new AID, enable Family Sharing. 
2) Remove the shared AID from the devices, add the new AID to them, enable Family Sharing.  

Pro/con? Considerations? What gets lost? The reset/rebuild option seems a bit drastic, but maybe it is the best way? I’m hoping someone (Level-10s) can provide step-by-steps to help all of us who want to get on with unwinding our shared IDs.

I did not reset my 2nd phone to factory. I have a couple links in here with a way to sign out of the AID and keep everything. In short, You keep local copies of photos and do not delete contacts, etc when prompted.


once you set up family sharing, you rarely need to input their appleID except for major updates after those reboots.

Dec 13, 2023 8:51 AM in response to lobsterghost1

lobsterghost1 wrote:

Read the thread. Yes, it's because you are using the same Apple ID on two iPhones. The carrier has nothing to do with it. Apple does not recommend using the same Apple ID on more than one iPhone, especially, if the phones are used by different people.

Incorrect. Voicemail is a service provided by the carrier. If you change the PIN you do it on their service. The phone only holds the stored messages that are local. Some carriers you need to go further to their actual service to fully delete older messages so they clear out and not leave you with any storage so people can leave new VMs.


the whole appleID I set up to use one ID on ALL devices a person may have. I have 2 phones for my own use. I do not share with wife and kids.

Dec 19, 2023 7:02 PM in response to cbadland

cbadland wrote:

For a company that touts its "protection of privacy" so much... this is a real lame move. I'm guessing a lot of couples who have shared an iPhone account for over a decade may be having some intense discussions after viewing each others voicemails!

And yet, they've ALWAYS had the ability to check each others text messages, without permission. And they've always had the ability to get each other's phone calls. The ONLY difference is they now can't turn off phone call logs or voicemail. So, I'm not sure I understand why this is really a major issue? But if it is, the solution is simple. Stop sharing an Apple ID.

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