My previous phone was an iPhone 12Pro - it worked flawlessly with the car on iOS16.X
The lead Mechanical engineer had an iPhone 15 Pro Max. At that stage we were both running 17.1.2
His phone connected without issue.
Mine didn't.
I've had an ALL NEW PCM head unit replaced by the dealer (under extended warranty), and checked on Firmware updates.
Has not helped.
But it diminishes my thoughts of the car being the issue.
My guess is still the phone.
And either it being a batch of Bluetooth transmitter receivers or crap software.
Interestingly, if a person calls me, and the car initiates the communication to the phone, it seems to be stable.
When the phone initiates the communication to the car it fails 9/10.
The immediate sign is that the car stereo continues to play and doesn't mute the music/radio whilst dialling and connecting, despite the car and phone both clearly showing icons that BT connection is in place.
This says to me that the BT protocol coming from the phone is flawed.
I'm concerned it's the Bluetooth hardware still, as that's the sort of thing that no manufacturer would want to own up to and face massive product recall and replacement issues.
Meanwhile, I'm praying a software upgrades comes and fixes it.
Or I'm seeking a full refund against an iPhone 16 in September.