Here is my solution, as the reset of the NVRAM/PRAM/SMC -- all have failed ---
and all other methods seem to be useless.
I have recorded an applescript that lowers the brightness to my desired level:
https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/34884/how-can-i-dim-the-screen-from-te rminal
and basically its this command repeated 4x Times in the same file, that is executed as a login item:
[as after a reboot it goes to 80% which is far too bright for me]
Dimmer:
tell application "System Events" key code 107 end tell
If I could put {my} app here, I would, but... so you can lauch Script Editor, and put in the above, and then repeat until it gets to your desired level, then save it as an App, and then place it in the Login Items for your user....