Let me just start by saying this problem has plagued me for literal YEARS. I get the newest iPhone every year and eventually after a number of months this issue crops up and I find myself back on these forums participating in the latest threads on the same issue. I’ve had several phones replaced, bought new phones, you name it but this issue has followed me through 2 different homes in different cities. My wife’s phone and my iPad are unaffected.
What you are saying about it only happening at home is the key here because it is the exact same thing for me and it always has been. I’ve had a new iPhone 11 Pro Max since launch and only this week after like 8 or 9 months this issue has cropped up again and it won’t go away. It’s affecting Bluetooth on my AirPods, my SUV, Bluetooth speakers..everything. If I leave the driveway of my house the connection in my car will be fine but as soon as I drive back into the driveway the music will skip like a broken CD and eventually disconnect from the Bluetooth. I’ve put the phone on airplane mode and only keep Bluetooth enabled and it still happens so it’s isolated to the Bluetooth. I have so many different smart devices in my home using 2.4GHZ that it’s difficult trying to think what the issue is but the only thing I can think of at this point are Amazon echo speakers as most of the devices I bought after this issue first cropped up a few years ago.
I recently connected my phone to one of my echos in my house so I could use it as a Bluetooth speaker for the first time with this particular phone and I just tried to remove it from the device (an echo show) and it was hung and wouldn’t remove so I did a factory reset on the echo. I also noticed on my Alexa app on my phone my other echos had saved Bluetooth devices, phones that I used to own. Even if you forget the device on your phone, your device remains saved on the echo speakers so I wonder if the device is trying to keep connecting to your phone any time it’s in range. This is the only thing I can think of at this point and I hope it’s right. If it’s not the echos it’s definitely a device in my house that is causing this issue like it’s fighting for the connection while you are already to connected to a device but you don’t have the culprit device saved in your Bluetooth anymore but it’s a device that you were once connected to.