Denise, Just an update for you here:
As you knew, by scrupulously following the steps in the "fix" which I had posted earlier, I did successfully get all 2500+ photos synced on my iPhone X & iPad Pro (and within their appropriate folders!), and it did take some time initially. The nasty combination of iOS 11.3 and iTunes 11.7.4 made it all quite the challenge, for sure. And then, Apple goes on ahead and releases iOS 11.3.1, worrying me that I'd have to do all of my steps over yet again. However, that didn't turn out to be the case for me. Today, before doing my very 1st sync using iOS 11.3.1 and iTunes 12.7.4, I even added a few new photos into existing folders, added a new folder with some photos, and even added two videos to the mix in my iTunes library. The result: both phone and pad successfully synced, including all of the new additions, in under a total time of 20 minutes! I really feel badly for all of those who "regressed" back to the iTunes 12.7.3 version to address this problem. It appears that doing that causes even more problems overall (putting toothpaste back into the tube..never a good idea!) So, I just wanted to update you and the others here about this (rare) continued success I've had, without any help from (Bad) Apple! And or the sake of anyone else reading this now, I'm re-posting the steps in my "fix that worked" below here:
Step 1: Open your target Photo Folder (which includes all of its sub folders, and DELETE the iPod Photo Cache folder.
Step 2. Perform a sync on your device, but UNCHECK the “Sync Photos” box, when prompted, select “remove all photos from device” (this action will erase existing photos from your device). Complete the sync.
Step 3: After disconnecting USB from PC, perform a “hard reboot” of iPhone or iPad & restart the device(s).
Step 4: Next, begin a new sync, this time, CHECKING the box to “Sync Photos” (this action will result in recopying ALL of your target folders & photos, and can take some time to complete, as it would if you were setting up a brand new device)
Step 5: Hopefully..you can finally smile!
Wishing you all the best of luck!!