It's sad to see so many of the exact issues I posted months ago, and we are all still here looking for answers.
There are no shortcuts, no workarounds, and being Not perfect is not an answer either, I purchased my New Mini with the expectation of wireless Apple Carplay. which I was excited about when I first still had my Iphone X. I love Apple Products and wanted the new 11Pro. that's when all this started happening. I've reported several times to apple, and Mini, and still we sit with not 100% Functioning Carplay. How is Mini or BMW now telling new and potential customers about their Wireless CARPLAY . You can only use if you have an old phone? It's not acceptable. I've been programmed now to grab my phone out of the cradle when a call comes in, so when the phone drops from carplay, I can put it up to my ear to continue the conversation. I'm beginning to expect the skips in music, so I don't sing along anymore, incase I hear myself between the skips... It's not how Carplay is suppose to work. Its frustrating when I'm using siri to send a text and everything freezes. then I have to disconnect WIFI, or reset my phone, and reconnect. all that is tough when your driving.
I love my new phone, and shouldn't have to go backwards to my old X to make something that's revolutionary and new like wireless Carplay to work.
More of a "get it off my chest" than an actual solution. sorry to rant....